There is,of course, more than can ever be commented about. But here is one thing that is high on most people's list: Family.
And for those young ones who are missing a family, finding, and gaining acceptance in, a new family is high on the priority list.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOeQUwdAjE0
The following story is going out to one such family, but I thought I'd share it with you folks here as well.
Critters of Habit
Forever Family
George Bear was
elbow-deep in the stack of monthly bills when his youngest cub, LizaBeth, put
her small paw on his much bigger paw.
"Papa?"
"Yes, Li'l
Bit?"
"What's a
'Forever Family'?"
"What do you
mean?"
"There's this
girl in class, Tanya, who was talking about her special day. The day she met
her 'Forever Family'. She was all excited about it."
"Ah, you mean
Tanya Sparrow?"
"Yes,
Papa."
"Well, it's
kind of complicated. But it's simple, too, when you get down to the basics of
it. Are you ready for a story?"
"Is it a
Dragon story, Papa?"
"No, it's a
real story. The names might be different, but it happened, for real."
"Is it
long?"
(smiling)
"I'll try to keep it short. It's about a cub very much like you, maybe a
little smaller, but she had the same eyes you do ..."
She had a mama and
papa, like you do, but life didn't work out for them the way it should have,
and the little girl found herself alone.
"That's sad,
Papa."
"Very sad,
Li'l Bit."
"I bet she
cried."
"I'm sure she
did. I'm sure she was very lonely and scared."
"I'd be
scared, too, Papa."
"Me too, Li'l
Bit."
"What happened
to her?"
"Well. This
cub ended up, for a time, being taken care of by this family and then by that
family. And, while she was cared for and loved, she never seemed to end up in a
place that didn't eventually - well the phrase we sometimes use is: 'work out'.
Things didn't work out for the little cub, and she never got to stay for very
long in a place that she could call home with a family that loved her.
Then she met a
family that said: 'We'll make a place for you, here, forever.' …”
"Papa?"
"Yes?"
Worry drifted over
LizaBeth’s face, "Do I have a 'Forever Family'?"
George took his cub and gently wrapped his
huge arms around her.
"You sure do,
Li'l Bit. We're your Forever Family, me, Mama Bear, JR, Aunt Cindy, Uncle
Larry, Uncle Barney, ... the whole Bear Clan. You're our Li'l Bit, and we're
yours forever. You're stuck with us," he said, and growled, "And don't you forget it!"
Li'l Bit giggled,
"I won’t, Papa!"
"This cub didn’t want to
make friends with this new family. If she did have to leave, like before, with
her belongings stuffed in a sack, it would hurt ‘way too much. It took a long
while for the girl to trust and believe that this new family meant it when they said
'Forever'. It seemed like the better part of forever before she did believe.
"But, she had a
mama and a papa who helped her, and kept loving her, and a brother who called
her 'Sister'. He even got into fights with the neighborhood bullies when they
were mean to her.
"Eventually, she
got the message, and she began to settle in and get comfortable. She smiled
more. She even whispered some of her darkest secrets to her new Mama.
"One day, a very
special day, the family went to the courthouse. The Judge asked everyone a
great many questions. Finally he was satisfied that the people in the girl's
home meant what they said when they said 'Forever'. Even the little girl
believed it (which was the most important part).
"The judge banged
his gavel – "
"What's a
'gabel'?"
"That's
'gavel', and it's something like a hammer or mallet, but not quite. Now hush a
moment, this is the best, the most important part. As I was saying,"
The judged banged
his gavel, but before he did, he said: 'Little Girl, this is now your family,
forever. This matter is adjourned.'
Bang! went his
gavel, and everyone was smiling. Especially the little girl. She knew, somehow,
that she had a family again. She still wasn't quite sure what that meant, but
she knew, at least, that she had not only a bed to sleep in, and food to eat,
but people who would love her, forever.
"Oh. She must
have been happy, Papa."
"She
still is. And, even though there have been rough times - every family has 'em,
don't you know? - the love that grew was strong enough to get them through
those rough times. And all because one family said: 'We'll be your Forever
Family,' and meant it."
"If Tanya’s new family is like that, she must be really lucky, Papa."
"Li'l Bit,
there is no such thing as luck. What we call 'luck' is the Hand of God, moving
where we can't see it. There is nothing that happens that He doesn't have a
hand in.
"Now, then, my
li’l cubchild, it's time for bed."
"Aww,
Papa!"
"Don't you
'Aww, Papa' me. Git along, now!" George said gruffly, but with a twinkle in
his eye.
George was turning
back to the stack of bills, when he felt a gentle paw on his shoulder.
"You told that story like you were there."
George looked up to
see Ethel looking down, her eyes shining.
He said, "Well, I was, for some of it. I remember teasing you when
we were cubs. I was kind of mean."
Ethel gave his
shoulder a squeeze, "And I remember the thumping you got from my brother,
Barney, when he heard you calling me 'Nobody's Cub'. And I remember him telling
you, in no uncertain terms, that 'She was so, "Somebody's Cub", she's
my SISTER!' And then he gave you one last thump, so's you would remember
it."
"Yeah, he hits
hard, when he’s riled up. And you sure grew up to be 'Somebody'."
George patted the
paw on his shoulder, and looked up at his wife, "We sure do have some
wonderful stories, don't we?"
Ethel merely smiled
back.
Folks, there are many kids out there that need a 'Forever Family'. If you have the willingness and strength to be a special 'Forever Family' to a special kid, please, by all means do so. The results are world-changing, for the child, but also for you.
Yes, You CAN
