Okay, I admit I bit at the media bait and checked out the Miss Bimbo site.
Not much of anything socially redeeming there, and no, I wouldn't let my little girl have a bimbet there.
On the other hand, I feel the same way about Worlds of Warcraft. And I'm personally more likely to participate there.
For myself, nowadays, I feel it's a waste of my time, in spite of the fact I used to have some fun with Dungeons and Dragons.
Which leads me to the true topic of the day: seizing it.
Warning: Hackneyed Phrase coming up. "We receive a gift of 1440 minutes every day."
But, it's true. Each minute should be filled with living your life in as full a manner as possible. That none of us truly do is beside the point. Many of us (dare I say most of us?) don't even come close to filling sixty (60) of those minutes in any given day. Myself, unfortunately, included.
I'm not meaning to get on the case of someone who is taking a well-earned rest in his or her hammock. I mean the rest of us who, in spite of our selves, are spinning our wheels. We routinely waste time better spent trying to do our work, raise our kids, do our shopping, and, yes, relaxing without worries. I'm told that lack of effective rest undermines all of our daily activities.
If you've ever been up all night because of some malady or worry. Were you anywhere near one hundred percent the next day?
I thought not.
How about if you were playing some online game all night? Or doing some heavy partying? Surely you were one hundred percent the next day?
Alright, you can stop laughing now. You get my point, don't you?
Seizing the day means different things to different people. That's as it should be. It should also mean 'make the most of your opportunity.'
A word about making the most of your opportunity. In the play Cyrano De Bergerac, the man with the long nose and longer sword, someone, wanting to pick a fight with him, told him his nose was "Rather large". Instead of immediately drawing his sword, Cyrano replied, "Is that all?", then proceeds to give example after example of truly witty insults about his nose. Then returns the insult with "These are things you might have said, had you had any letters (reading) or wit." Then Cyrano proceeds to sword fight with the ignoble fellow while composing a poem about the fight in progress, running the man through at the last line "... Then as I end the refrain, thrust home!" (for the complete list I commend to you the Brian Hooker translation of Edmond Rostand's play Cyrano De Bergerac, you'll find it in Act I)
The moral of that story is, if you're going to get yourself into trouble anyway, make the most of it (or don't cross swords or cross wits unless you are suitably skilled yourself).
Donald Trump has similar advice: "If you're going to think anyway, you might as well think BIG!"
Chelsea Clinton, in my humble opinion, missed an opportunity last week to properly answer back her questioner with style and grace, but instead responded in anger. Personally speaking, my angry moments have seldom been my best moments. I get tongue-tied, illogical, and prone to hit things. When I keep my temper I keep my wits. I can even remember license plate numbers (see: "What's in a Note, you say?" below).
In short, thinking makes you better able to seize the moment, and make the most of your opportunity.
Make each moment count. The folks at Miss Bimbo have tapped into something potentially big, if perhaps only short-lived (think: Pocket Pets & Tamagotchis) They're making the most of it. If they're smart they're scouting for the more possible Next Big Thing our there.
Make each moment count. Enjoy your relaxation. Our family trip yesterday to a snowed-in Rocky Mountain National Park was priceless to my spirit, and a wonderful experience for our snow-suited little girl, and a vital recharge for my wife.
Make each moment count. Including the ones where you just get your night time rest.
Seize the Day!
Make each moment count!
Yes, You Can!